愛情中重要的不是找尋相同,而是可否接受對方的不相同。
從愛情的發展與延伸中,只要一直持續,就會慢慢培養出共同的嗜好或興趣,從而會
有越來越多的相同與共通點。而這一切,只要有一點不同而無法接受,就會全面毀滅。
在諸多戀愛過程中,特別感受到的是對於愛情的忍受以及願意改變的程度,這往往就
是跟喜愛對方的程度,對於另一半的景仰或羨慕程度成正比。
沒有打不痛,沒有離不開的戀愛,只有還沒有痛夠的戀愛。
愛情中的天平,如果傾斜,是無法久存的,因為在另一邊放上的是自己的愛,損耗的
也是自己對於另一半的愛。
愛情需要運氣,能找到自己合適的真的需要運氣,發文、由談話中刪減只是一個減少
一點運氣成分的方法,有時候不小心也會把好的刪去了,這時候只能默默嘆氣。
I found my soulmate. You didn't.
I dedicate myself to this relationship.
You don't want to give in your principle for us.
You said and I quote here, "There is no fairness in love, nor in our
relationship. What you can do is great. However I can't do the same thing."
I am all in now. Then the story shall end here.
In the very beginning, I realized we are not in the same league.
After months went by, you make me see it more clearly by pointing out each
wrong I made or every word I said improperly.
Yes I still love you. But you might think we are not in the same page
anymore, dear.
敬祝天下有情人終有眷屬,敬祝我愛情順利。
Fingers crossed.