Tuesday Aug 12
You may be asking a question in a certain way so that you
will get a certain kind of answer. You may be tailoring
your words so that the only way to respond is with what
you want to hear.
But the answer you get may not match reality. It may not
give you what you need. Even though it may be much easier
to deal with your fantasy version of the situation, it is
neither wise nor productive. If you want to make something
better, you should deal with it as realistically as possible.