Don't be tempted to make an important decision in a defensive state of mind.
If you do, you could wind up making a choice based on anger, resentment,
revenge, or even insecurity. That could translate to a misguided decision
that could leave you filled with regret and disappointment. Before you
consider what you want and need to do, Moonchild, you need to settle
into the right state of mind. You need to first ascertain what you really
do want and need, and then you have to empower yourself by finding balance
and a sense of confidence. That will lead you to do the best thing you can
do for yourself and others.