You could probably come up with a list of differences that exist between
you and a family member, or a person who is immersed in your social circle.
This may create a problem from time to time. Perhaps you two clash when you
are inevitably among the same group of people, or maybe there are times when
things this person says and does just gets under your skin. But instead of
creating that list of differences, Cancer, try to come up with a list of
similarities, common interests, and shared values. That would be a start to
making your co-existence more peaceful.