If so-and-so jumped off a bridge, would you jump too? That's the familiar
refrain of many a mother who is upset their child is doing something careless
or even stupid simply because of peer pressure. No matter how old you are,
you may be feeling peer-pressured now, too, Moonchild. There are some cases
where going with the flow is preferable, but not right now. You are smarter
than that. If it isn't good for you, just say no. This is the preferred
option right now.