When you were a child, your parents may have stressed that it was
important to share with your siblings and playmates. The doll or toy truck
that you treasured may have then been handed off to some other child, and
that may have made you feel a bit possessive. As adults, some of us still
harbor guilt when we don't want to share. But the truth is that sharing
isn't always the right thing to do. Someone may be encouraging you to
share something now that you don't want to share, and you shouldn't have
to, Cancer. Whether this is a credit you earned or a reward you worked
for, don't feel guilty about not wanting to share.
當你還小的時候，你的父母親可能就強調了跟手足和玩伴分享的重要性，你珍惜的娃
娃或玩具卡車可能被送給其他小孩了，這可能讓你產生占有慾。現在長大成人了，我
們之中有一些人仍然會在不想要分享的時候心懷愧疚。然而，事實上，分享並不總是
對的。有人可能正在鼓勵你分享某個你不想分享的東西，那你就不需要這樣做，巨蟹。
不管這是你掙來的功勞或是努力得來的獎賞，你不想分享的時候，不用感到愧疚。