You may be thinking about giving in to a compromise now, Moonchild,
because there is a conflicted situation that you want to end. But you may
be considering giving up more than your fair share as a way to end this
situation quickly. While that might make the other person happy - they
are, after all, giving up far less - this won't satisfy you for very long.
You have more leverage than you realize. Be patient and come up with a
plan that is more equitable. In the long run you will be glad that you
did.
你現在可能在考慮要妥協,月之子,因為你想要結束那個爭執的場面。但是你或許也
在考慮放棄更多原本你擁有的,這樣才能快點解決。這樣做可能會讓其他人高興—畢
竟他們放棄的比較少,當然高興啊—可是你不會因此而滿意太久的。你比自己認為的
還要有影響力,要有耐心,並且準備好一個更公平、公正的計畫,長久來看,你會慶
幸自己這樣做的。