作者:
kl25082 (è²)
2019-11-04 22:33:42If we celebrated our defeats and our failures in the same way that we
celebrate our successes, we would feel positive and happy all the time.
And in a way, we should. Success can bring many obvious rewards, but a
failure can also bring positives. However, the positives from failure are
not usually as obvious and become more apparent as time passes. For
example, even a failed effort can bring you great connections and valuable
experiences or save you from going in the wrong direction. In a current
quest, you need to celebrate every aspect of your journey, whether you see
it as a triumph or a failure. Doing so will make you considerably more
content, satisfied and grateful.
如果我們用跟慶祝自己的成功一樣的方式來慶祝失敗與挫折,我們就會一直覺得樂觀
又快樂。就某種意義來說,我們也該這樣做才對。成功可以帶來很多顯著的獎勵,不
過失敗也可以帶來積極正面的結果。然而,從失敗得到的積極正面的結果通常不會那
麼明顯,但會隨著時間流逝而變得更加顯而易見。舉個例子,就算是失敗的結果還是
可以為你帶來很好的人脈和珍貴的經驗,或是讓你避免往錯的方向走去。在你最近追
求某個東西的過程中,不論你認為這是成功或失敗,你都必須慶祝自己這趟旅程的每
一個面向,如此一來,將會大幅讓你更加滿意、滿足和感謝。