You may think that setting boundaries with friends and family members
creates distance between you and them. You may think it is an unfriendly
way to go, Moonchild. But if you need space and a defined territory, not
setting boundaries is more likely to create a rift between you and your
loved ones. Boundaries help you develop a safe space where you can be your
true and best self. If you need to draw a line, this is a great time to do
it.
或許你會認為跟朋友和家人劃清界線會讓彼此產生距離感,你可能會認為這是一種不
友善的做法,月之子。但是如果你需要空間和明確的領域,不要劃清界線反而更有可
能會讓你跟你愛的人產生裂痕。界線會幫助你發展出安全的空間,在那裡,你可以做
真實的自己,也可以做最美好的自己。如果你需要劃清那條界線,現在正是這樣做的
好時機。