If you make a mistake with good intentions, it is natural to want to
explain your mistake to justify your actions. While you may think that it
would look too defensive to do so and that you shouldn't have to answer to
anyone about a recent mistake, doing so could help you clarify your
thought process and show that you really do care. It could also ignite a
brainstorming session that will help you come up with a brilliant
solution. Wouldn't that be wonderful?
如果你心存善意卻犯了錯，想要藉由解釋自己的過錯來為自己的行為辯護是很自然的
事。雖然你也許會認為這樣做看起來防衛心太重，你不應該為最近所犯下的錯誤而向
任何人解釋，可是這樣做卻能幫助你釐清自己思考的過程，並且表現出你是真的很在
乎，也可以引發一場精彩的腦力激盪，幫助你想出超棒的解決方法，這樣不是很好嗎？