Trying to reason with someone who is engaged in attention-seeking behavior -
as you may be doing now - is not going to work, Cancer. When dealing with
a drama king or queen, you must recognize that their goal is getting the
attention they crave, even if they don't acknowledge it themselves.
Therefore, the only way to deal with someone who is causing discord in
this way is to ignore them. You can, however, share your attention and
affection if they do begin to behave more responsibly. In the meantime,
it's best to just walk away.
當某個人表現出尋求關注的行為，你要試著了解他—而你現在也許就在這樣做—但這
不會有什麼好結果，巨蟹。當你要跟反應很激烈的人相處的時候，你必須體認到他的
目的是得到他所渴望的關注，就算他本人不願意承認也一樣。因此，跟這個引起紛爭
的人相處的唯一方法就是別理他。然而，如果他真的開始表現地更有責任感，那你也
可以分享自己的注意力與關愛給他，與此同時，瀟灑轉身離開也不失為一種選擇。