Something you recently heard or learned from someone - or in some other
way - may have left you feeling a little bit lost. Your first reaction may
have been that it shows you are less cared for or admired by someone than
you thought. It may seem that another person is more valued or trusted
than you are. But people do things for various reasons sometimes - and
often those reasons have nothing whatsoever to do with you. Before you
express your sense of loss or hurt, give yourself some time to live with
it. You may discover that this was actually a gift.
你最近從某個人那邊聽到或學到的東西—或是以其他方式—也許讓你覺得有一點迷惘。
你的第一個反應可能是這顯示出了你比你所想的還要不受到某人的重視或欣賞，這或
許好像是其他人比你更受到重視、更被信任。不過人們有時候做事是出於各式各樣的
原因——而那些理由跟你幾乎沒有關聯。在你表達自己的失落感或受傷感之前，給自
己一點時間跟那種感受相處，你也許會發現這其實是一種禮物。