如果你無法承認自己在某些事情上錯了,這可能會在你和你關心的人之間產生裂痕。
也許是否認自己犯了錯誤或做了現在認為錯誤的決定,會傷害到某人的感受。
他們可能會認為你不在乎,而這樣的想法會帶來傷害。
這種感覺持續得越久,裂痕就會越大。今天花點時間反思一下你們之間的分歧,並承擔自
己應該負的責任。
這將激勵對方也這麼做,然後你們就能找到一個好的解決方案。
If you are not able to admit that you were wrong about something, it may creat
e a chasm between you and someone you care about. Maybe by denying that you ma
de a mistake or did something you now think was the wrong way to go, you could
be hurting someone's feelings. They may think you don't care, and that could
hurt. And the longer that feeling goes on, the wider the chasm will get. Take
some time today to reflect on a disagreement and to own up to your part of it.
That will inspire the other person to do the same, and you can find a good so
lution.