太陽盛德導師在今天的「全球網路共修課」上圍繞著其中一個重點，就是「人情世故」融
通後，可以更容易適切地處理人際關係，化解大部分的紅塵問題。「紅塵擾心」的感嘆和
無奈，很大程度來自於人際互動的順暢與否。
許多人對於「世故」的刻板印象是，處世經驗豐富而流於圓滑。往往對於「世故」的人產
生戒心。曾有至友提到她女婿非常世故，女兒逃不出他的手掌心。當時以媛提醒至友為何
不從另外的角度看?女婿因為心智成熟，做人處事面面俱到，做的決定都很到位，結果只
有對女兒或家庭有好處，為何一定要從她心目中認定的「世故」來看女婿?這樣先入為主
的執念印入心靈深處成為data後，可能在未來不自覺地造成誤解及後續一連串的錯誤，破
壞了兩造關係，實在很傻。
導師提醒人際相處的每一個場景，都是一場戲，不要任性地消費掉沒有把握的戲碼，一旦
演錯了不會再重來，因此需要步步為營。藉由修為和修養去修心，讓自己成長提升，化解
一些過去想不通的恩怨情仇。自己一旦提升了知見，想通了邏輯，覺知自己角色該有的言
行舉止的範疇，就不會因為執念而一意孤行，或造成對方的損失。
導師說人世間的恩怨情仇導致的因果輪迴，絕大多數是苦的。究其原因，是在人際交流時
，沒有把握住自己有多少籌碼足以支撐當時說出的話、提出的要求、期望的結果等等。沒
有自知之明，在事前惦惦斤兩，評估某一個決定有多少勝算，即使對方親如夫妻或父子，
如果自己的要求有違人性、不合天心，就不會長久維持平衡和諧的關係而終至疏離。親情
的運作和維繫，仍然需要有一定的條件才能發揮作用，來圓滿彼此的緣份，成就好的結果
。如何經由轉念、營造，主動開創助緣去圓滿關係，才是當務之急。
參東流
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一生的庸碌有什麼
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THE HUSTLE AND BUSTLE IN LIFE?
再回首似換得一壺酒
LOOKING BACK, LIFE IS LIKE A BOTTLE OF ALCOHOL
又把我推走 任憑大海終無留
DRIFTING IN THE BOUNDLESS OCEAN
這才暢飲感受 參東流
LATER REALIZING THAT LIFE CANNOT BE REVERSED LIKE THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE
EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
亮麗的人生是什麼
WHAT IS A GLORIOUS LIFE?
是不是 終生做 飲陳酒
IS IT A RAT RACE WITH MORE DRINKING?
終究等白頭 怨懟終結總還留
AT THE END, RESENTMENTS LEFT UNSETTLED
難免百般感慨 參東流
FEELING OF VICISSITUDES LIKE THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
我才懂得人生路由
I THEN REALIZE WHAT IS LIFE
看透什麼叫做足夠
AND UNDERSTAND WHAT IS ENOUGH
夢醒間似懂 繁華又何求
WAKING UP FROM MY DREAM AND ASKING MYSELF WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR IN LIFE
瀟灑追夢領風騷参東流
CHASING MY DREAMS, TAKING CONTROL, UNDERSTANDING THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE
EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
參東流知否 猜透亦看透
THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN, I FULLY UNDERSTAND AND
REALIZE
享好過終究要懂參東流
TO HAVE A GOOD LIFE,
WE MUST CHERISH IT BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE A RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST THAT WILL
NEVER RETURN
亮麗的人生是什麼
WHAT IS A GLORIOUS LIFE?
是不是 終生做 飲陳酒
IS IT A RAT RACE WITH MORE DRINKING?
終究等白頭 怨懟終結總還留
AT THE END, RESENTMENTS LEFT UNSETTLED
難免百般感慨 參東流
FEELING OF VICISSITUDES LIKE THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
我才懂得人生路由
I THEN REALIZE WHAT IS LIFE
看透什麼叫做足夠
AND UNDERSTAND WHAT IS ENOUGH
夢醒間似懂 繁華又何求
WAKING UP FROM MY DREAM AND ASKING MYSELF WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR IN LIFE
瀟灑追夢領風騷参東流
CHASING MY DREAMS, TAKING CONTROL, UNDERSTANDING THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE
EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
參東流知否 猜透亦看透
THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN, I FULLY UNDERSTAND AND
REALIZE
享好過終究要懂參東流
TO HAVE A GOOD LIFE, WE MUST CHERISH IT BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE A RIVER FLOWING
TO THE EAST THAT WILL NEVER RETURN
勾畫思緒参東流
CLEAR MY THOUGHTS AND CHERISH LIFE BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE A RIVER FLOWING TO
THE EAST AND WILL NEVER RETURN
冬陽雖好又誰能留
THE WINTER SUN IS SO PRECIOUS, BUT NO ONE CAN HOLD ON TO IT FOREVER
在愛中共振，在感恩中連結。
打造精采生命，共創美好未來。