You may feel that a recent problem or delay was someone else's fault, Gemini.
Maybe it was, but maybe you unknowingly contributed to it. It doesn't matter e
ither way. If you approach it with a tone of blame, you may only create hostil
ity in a situation that would be much better without it, as most situations ar
e. Rather than pointing at someone's flaw or mishap, try to deal with this in
a constructive, solution-oriented way. That's a positive approach that can onl
y improve things.
也許它是（別人的錯），但也可能是你不經意的推波助瀾。這其實都不重要。
如果你帶著指責去面對它，或許只會生出敵意，而在這種情況下，
或者大多數的情況下，敵意都是不被樂見。
與其指責別人的缺點或者是災難，試著用有建設性的、解決方案的方向去處理它。
正向的方法才是唯一可以改善事情。
Ps.如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。