You have done so much and given so much to a certain person that you may have
come to believe that they can't function without your help. But even if that w
ere true, it would not be an obligation for you to be there and provide whatev
er that person asks for or needs. In fact, the only obligation you might have
in such a situation is to turn down requests so that this individual might beg
in to stand on their own two feet. If that's your predicament now, consider se
tting things straight, dear Gemini.
你已經為某個人做了許多事並且貢獻許多給他，
以致於你相信他們沒有你就無法運作。
但是，即使那是真的，你沒有義務去提供那個人的要求和需求。
實際上，你唯一的義務是拒絕那些要求以便那個人獨立。
如果這個就是你的困境，親愛的雙子們，請考慮將事情擺平。
Ps.如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。