You may be spending a lot of your time and energy trying to fix a problem that isn't really your responsibility. You may feel an obligation to this person. You may feel the blame for the problem, even though that probably isn't the case. You may even feel that you should solve this problem so that other things can fall into place. But you haven't made any headway, and you probably won't. The person who is truly responsible will need to take on that role. Get back to your own - more important -
responsibilities, Leo.
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你也許花了很多時間與精力去解決一個其實並不該是你負責的問題。你也許覺得你對這個人有義務負責。你也許感受到了因為這個問題排山倒海而來的指責，即使那可能根本稱不上個大事。你甚至還覺得你應該解決這個問題而這樣其他事情也能夠按部就班。但你還沒看到任何曙光，而未來也看不到。讓本該為這個問題負責的人盡他的本分。回到你自己的生活-更重要的是-處理好你原本應負起的責任。
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懶人包：別當個濫好人
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生日快樂，那個曾跟我近在咫尺又遠在天邊的人