You may have built up a lot of resentment towards someone over the years becau
se this person has consistently let you down or disappointed you in various wa
ys. But at the same time, dear Leo, the lessons that you have learned because
of this experience have been valuable. Even if you can't see that yet, time wi
ll prove that these and other issues in your life have helped build your own c
haracter in a positive way. So, instead of feeling resentful - which will only
degrade you and your relationship - be thankful. This is much more productive
.
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多年來,你對某人可能積累產了很多怨恨,因為這個人一直以各種方式讓你失望。
但與此同時,你因為這件事而吸取的教訓是有價值的。 即使你還沒有意識到,但時間會
證明你生活中的這些問題有助於以積極的方式建立自己的人品。
所以,不要感到怨恨 - 這只會拖累你- 要感恩,這樣對你來說更好。