You may have been put in charge - officially or otherwise - of managing a
difficult situation. But the thing that may be most difficult is the
person you have to deal with. This individual may not be easy to get along
with, and your hands may be tied as you search for a solution. You can't
make someone become agreeable. You can't force this person to do anything
they don't want to do. But you can do everything you are capable of on
your own and seek out other assistance. Upon taking the power out of this
person's hands, you may find they come around with better behavior.
你可能被委託—不管是正式或其他方式—處理某個棘手的狀況，但是最麻煩的其實是
人，這個人也許不好相處，導致你可能束手無策。你沒辦法要求別人同意你，也不能
逼迫這個人做他不想做的事，但是你可以盡你所能地尋求協助。當你奪走他的自主權
的時候，或許你就會發現對方表現得更好了。