As adults, bullies may look a lot different than what they did as
children. A bully can be a co-worker, a neighbor, or someone in some
position of authority in our lives. When you are treated disrespectfully
by a bully, you can stand up to them and treat them in the same way they
are treating you since this is often the only way they will back off. Or,
you can turn the other cheek and walk away. If your choice of how to deal
with someone's bullying is criticized by your allies, Scorpio, don't let
it affect you. You have to do what's best for you, and only you know what
that is.
大人世界的惡霸可能跟小孩子的惡霸非常不同，這個惡霸也許是同事、鄰居或是我們
生活中具有某種權威地位的人，當你被惡霸無理、不尊重地對待的時候，你可以站起
來為自己發聲，並且以牙還牙，因為這通常是唯一一種讓他們退讓的方式。或者你可
以打不還手、罵不還口，然後三十六計，走為上策。如果支持你的人批評你選擇處理
某個人霸凌你的方式，天蠍，別讓他們影響你。你必須做對自己最好的事，而只有你
知道什麼才是對自己最好的事。