Focusing on what you have in common with someone today - rather than on
how diverse your opinions are - will be the key to getting along with that
person. You can turn a situation around now if you are open-minded, if you
share your deepest thoughts and feelings about a complex matter, and if
you concentrate on the many things that you do have in common. By engaging
more in your shared interests, you will develop a connection that can
transcend problems like this.
今天要專注在你跟某人的共通點上—而不是你們的意見有多麼迥異—這是跟那個人相
處的關鍵。如果你保持開放的心胸，如果你分享你對某件複雜的事情的最深層想法和
感受，如果你專注在你們的諸多共通點上，那你現在就可以轉變某個局勢。藉由更加
專注於你們共有的興趣，你將會發展出可以超越困難的情感關係。