When a show of affection is not possible - such as when you are restricted
from seeing someone in person, or you are separated by a great distance -
then a show of attention can fill that void for a while. If there is
someone you have a strong need to connect with, and vice versa, use your
creativity to figure out a way to show how much you care. You may be
feeling a deep need now for a meaningful connection with someone in your
life. Do whatever it takes to achieve that - whether it's a long,
late-night conversation or anything else. Let it suffice until you connect
in a different way.
當不可能表現出愛意的時候—例如當你被限制,不能單獨見某個人,或是你們被遠距
離分開了—那麼表現出關注力可以暫時填補那段空缺。如果你強烈需要跟某個人聯絡,
或是反過來,某人很想跟你聯絡,那就運用你的創造力來想辦法表現出你有多在乎。
你現在也許會覺得很需要跟生命中的某個人來一段有意義的連結,盡你所能地達成——
不論這是不是一段很長、熬夜促膝長談或其他的,使其滿足你的需求,直到你們用不
同的方式聯絡上。