You cannot right a wrong that was done against you a long time ago, though you have probably fantasized about it a lot. Holding a grudge, however, allows the person who wronged you to live rent-free in your mind. You can make up for whatever you lost, if you haven't already done so, but you cannot give yourself back the time you have wasted thinking about it. Let go of an old injustice. To concinue thinking about it would truly be unjust. Your time is better spend on more worthy pursuits.
牛牛們我們無法去更改一個以前別人對我們的誤解，我們可能常幻想如果當年沒被誤解會有多好。但是如果一直讓這個芥蒂存在我們心中就就是讓當年誤解我們的那個人有機會寄生在我們腦海裡。如果我們沒有找回我們所失去的我們還是可以盡力去找回，但是我們所浪費在上面的時間卻早已流失。放手讓他去吧。如果我們繼續想下去才是真正的不公平。我們的時間應該花在更有意義的地方。