有自信與咄咄逼人是不同的。你可能嘗試與某人表達一個觀點,或者站在一個對你很重要的議題的立場上。
為了做到這事,牛牛,你可能會以激進的方式對談、行動,這不一定是你自然的樣貌。
你可能需要退後一點,並明確、不過分強硬表達你的觀點。
如果你努力的更加巧妙,你更可能得到你所想要的。
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Being assertive is different from being aggressive. You may be trying to make a point with someone, or stand your ground on an issue that is very important to you. In an effort to do that, Taurus, you may be talking and acting in a very aggressive way, which is not necessarily a style that comes naturally to you. You may need to pull back just a little bit and make your point clear without being pushy about it. You are more likely to get exactly what you want if your efforts are more subtle.