你最近可能因為過去所作的某個決定被某些人提及或暗示,進而架起你的防禦心。
但其實你是在做任何決定前都會審慎思考的牛,呣呣,沒有一件事是例外的。
理所當然地,你無須架起你的防備心,因為一切可能只是庸人自擾。
將試圖解釋的心態放一旁,試著對自己所作的決定有信心,並相信它會成功。
別讓他人的想法箝制你的信心。
註: 如果你對自己夠自信,那就無須多慮;若沒自信,不是你的選擇有問題,而是你對自己信心不夠。
You may be on the defensive because of something someone has said or implied about a choice you have made. You are someone who thinks important choices and decisions through very carefully before you reach your conclusions, Taurus, and this decision was probably no exception. There is no reason to feel defensive because there is nothing for you to defend. Instead of taking that kind of stance, use that mindset to bolster your belief and validate your position. Don't let anyone else's opinion get to you.