作為一個極具親和力的人是你的優點,呣呣~但同時也會是你的缺點。
起初,那些你所信賴的對象會因為你的能力與實力,進而倚靠你、委託你。
但當你經常同意幫忙後,他人的委託常常會優先於自己份內的事情,而這些事情總會讓你
感到身心俱疲。
連帶影響的,是當他人有求於你時會認為這是理所當然的。
試著學習如何拒絕會是往後日子的一項重要課題。
註:試著多學習如何拒絕他人,會讓自己好過些。有時候我們常將「拒絕」與「交惡」劃
上等號,因此往往以「同意」代替「拒絕」。但事實上,巧妙地回絕反而會讓他人覺得
你是一個有自我風格的人,而不只是「好人」。
Being a people person is one of your virtues , Taurus , but it is also one of
your vices.
Firstly , those who love you know how wonderful it can be to have someone like
you to rely on.
But when you constantly say yes , always prioritizing others over yourself , it
can cause a lot of wear and tear on you .
It can also increase the odds of being taken for granted.
Learning to say no would be a valuable skill to develop.