有些人會傾向於分享許多他們個人生活的事情。
他們靠著分享這些秘密去建立與他人親密的相處,或是減緩他們個人的焦慮。
當沒有能夠個別傾訴的對象時,把內心的事情說出來並試圖尋求回饋是相當困難的事情。
有時候或許可以得到緩解,有時這也與缺乏自信有關,但請記得:若你跟錯誤的對象傾訴,
那麼很容易事與願違。
呣呣~你現在可能覺得自己需要一個能夠傾訴需求的對象,但請特別注意你是向誰討拍。
去尋求些你確定自己能夠信任的人吧~
註:每個人都會有想發牢騷討拍的時候,但請記得該對象要是你能信任的人。除此之外,也
請別過度依賴這個人,因為這會讓人感受到壓力或是焦慮,除非你非常確定他人的個性不
會因為妳的傾訴而受影響。
Some people have a tendency to be way too open about their personal lives.
They share their secrets as a way of creating intimacy or as a way to relieve
stress.
In a sense , it is like thinking out loud and seeking feedback for difficult
challenges when no other source of counseling is available.
Sometimes this is done because of the need for validation or feedback , sometimes
it comes from a lack of self-esteem - but it can easily backfire if you confide
in the wrong person.
You may feel the need to share something with others now , Taurus , but be
careful about who you share it with.
Seek out someone you know you are certain you can trust.