越是親近的人,越有可能是傷害我們的人。
因為他們知道我們的弱點、短處,也因此容易傷害最深處的部分。
若你最近因容忍某個人許久,而想找機會與他好好溝通、商量,請注意自己的行為與語氣,
別用太過針對性或是情緒勒索的言語。
善待他人總是會得到好的回饋,特別是這個人在你心中分外重要,呣呣~
註:有時越是親密的人,越難以直接溝通,因為某些事情可能會傷害到對方。但如果對方的
行為讓你覺得不得不糾正時,請記得別用情緒勒索性的詞彙,直白的告訴對方「這件事」與
我們的關係是兩件事,並不會因為它而影響我們之間的感情。
糾正是讓雙方都變得更好,而非隱忍而彼此沉淪。
The people that we are the closest to are the ones who have the potential to
hurt us the most.
They understand our weaknesses , our frailties , and they know to push our buttons.
If you delve into an argument that has been simmering between you and a loved one
anytime soon , be careful not to use any of those powers you have that come from
your familiarity with this person.
Being kind always reaps the greatest rewards , especially with someone you already
care about , Taurus.