但凡多不愉快的事情都能據實以告,我們也不會在人生的記事本上多記一筆謊言。
這並非表示我們撒謊成性,呣呣~很多時候我們撒謊只是為了保護自己,抑或是替某些人著想。
你現在可能身處在不得不撒謊的氛圍中,若不這麼做,可能會揭露一些你目前不想暴露的資訊——即便那可能是你內心真實的想法。
你也可以直率的表達自己的感受與想法,或是表達對於隱私方面的堅持,而非撒個善意謊言作解釋。
無論何者,都別因選擇結果而卻步。
註:選擇本身就是一生的課題。
在人生旅途中,呣們常常會面對許多選擇,時而撒謊應對,時而據實以告。但無論何者,皆毋須對自身有太多的批判。
撒謊並非不好、據實以告也沒有比較清高,這都只是因目的不同而做的選擇,重點應該放在目的的追求而非路徑的抉擇。
If you tell the whole truth about an uncomfortable situation, you won't have to memorize a lie. That's not to say that you lie often, Taurus, but all of us lie sometimes to protect ourselves or loved ones. You may find yourself in a situation where you may feel like you have to lie because doing otherwise would reveal something you don't want to reveal just yet - and that may be your answer. You can be candid about how you feel and about your desire for privacy without resorting to a lie. That's your
right, which you should not be afraid to exercise.