最近可能有人對你不好,阿牛。與其用防禦性的膝跳反應來應對,仔細想想,你需要分析
他們為什麼會有這樣的行為。問問自己這是否並不常見,以及為什麼他們會出現這樣的狀
況。如果你在分析中加入同情心,就可能會發現你被對待的方式來自於恐懼或壓力。它可
能沒有反映出那個人對你的真實感受。無論如何,都要以善意回應。
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Someone may have treated you badly recently, Taurus. But rather than a knee-je
rk reaction that is mostly defensive, if you think about it, you need to analy
ze why they behaved in such a way. Ask yourself if this is uncommon, and what
reasons might have caused the behavior. If you add compassion to your analysis
, you may just find that the way you were treated came from a place of fear or
stress. It may not have reflected how that person truly feels about you. Be k
ind in return, no matter what.
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