在華人社會小孩會被誇獎 好乖好聽話。 在北美社會很少把 you're such a good kid! you "always listen toyour parents!!" 當作讚美詞,。。。 華人社會娶老婆可能會說因為女生很乖很聽話會做家事 北美社會如果你說I married my wife becasue she's a good woman! She does all the housework and always listen to me人家會覺得你是在開什麼玩笑,有時候覺得華人社會很壓抑,大家都過得很辛苦