不曉得是我年紀大了所以跟不上時代,
還是因為歐洲年輕人真的遠比亞洲年輕人更開放,
亦或因為我的法籍女性朋友在法國其實是特例中的特例?
三月中是她生日,但因為她人現在在法國,
所以我只打算送個電玩遊戲下載碼給她,沒打算浪費那個錢買機票跑去湊熱鬧。
最近才偶然得知她的某位男性朋友揪了另外四個才二十幾歲的年輕小夥子,
準備在她生日的當天晚上一起五男大戰一女來慶祝生日。
我開玩笑地問她說,他們會不會幫妳準備蛋糕啊?
她說不知道,而我心裡則是想說「根本不需要,因為妳她媽的就是那個蛋糕啊!」
身為斯拉夫母親和北歐父親的混血,A罩杯的她年輕時的家庭成長背景不怎麼順遂,
雖然身材很好卻從沒交過男朋友。因為和主題無關我就不多加敘述了。
但這故事讓我聯想到說,台灣那些不學無術的小流氓可以有上不完的便宜台妹,
有一部份是因為她們主要來自於不完整的家庭,自幼價值觀扭曲,
因而沉迷於那種被人需要、被人愛的感覺。
然而就像我另外一位英國女性友人對這件事情所下的註解:
「It's not a very good life. Maybe when she's older she will feel more mature
and stop it. Because as much as we hate to admit it, but life is mostly what
people around you think on you. If everyone thinks she's a slut or something,
will she ever find a partner being happy and have a family? She's young and
free, and can do whatever she wants, but it's basic human nature to want
something different. Sex all the time will just get boring if it's random
people. Soon she will want someone she truly loves.」
簡單來說就是約砲約到一定程度就會膩,開始羨慕那種被人真心愛著的感覺所以上岸,
因此會有一堆台女玩膩了就跑到新竹來靠岸。
請問各位身邊有很多這種例子嗎?還是其實根本不常見?