You need to figure out why a certain person always manages to get under your
skin. You may think that it happens because this person is an instigator and
often brings up topics or make comments that you can't help but defend. But
it may be deeper than that, Aries. It may be the case that deep down you
really want this person's approval, and when something is said that doesn't
resonate with you, you go on the defensive. If that's a possibility, then
work on finding your confidence in yourself - not elsewhere.
你需要去搞清楚為什麼有個人總是很喜歡惹你。你可能認為這個人是那種不論發起什麼話
題或回應，都是會讓你採取防衛方式的。但這可能有更深層的意思喔，羊兒。這或許是其
實你非常想要這個人的贊同，而當被說什麼與你不匹配的時候，你當然就採取防衛措施啦
。如果這個可能性不是零的話，那就別再望著別人了，從你自身中找出你自己的自信吧！