※ 引述《kaoru0913 (Doris)》之銘言：
: 前一段婚姻…我已經獨立撫養二個小孩，前夫也是擺爛…不給撫養費。
跟我碰到的事一樣，我前妻也是擺
爛不給撫養費，由我這邊撫養兩個
小孩，跟妳握握手。
債權憑證也下來多
: 年...遲遲因為他沒特定工作及財產無法做執行。
我前妻也是説她沒錢。
: 目前這是我的第二段婚姻。
: 認識一年多，交往一年多，結婚一年。目前懷孕29週。
: 從交往到婚後，他一直是位嘴甜貼心的另一伴。
: 婚後除了偶發性吃醋的小爭執外，沒什麼特別大的問題。
: 因為工作的關係…我們是週末夫妻。
: 就在這週，他突然性的鬧脾氣，說無法繼續跟我過日子。一直要求要離婚...肚子裡的
寶
: 寶他也不想要了...要求去做引產。
: (會懷這個孩子…是他要求的。他獨生子，第一段婚姻。很喜歡小孩…也說好只生這一
個
: 。)
: 因為他年紀比我小，我一直當他在鬧脾氣。好言相待與他溝通...也以為讓他心情沈澱
一
: 下會有好轉
: 但他的態度時好時壞…一下會像往常一樣關心妳...一下又鬧著問我何時可以簽字離婚
。
: 他四處詢問肯做人工引產的醫院/診所…週數這麼大...生下來都會哭會活了…基於法令
、
: 人道…沒有任何合法醫療機構肯做。
: 現階段…我以為讓他獨自冷靜，情形會有所好轉，但我錯了！
: 他想趕在寶寶出生前辦離婚...我不肯。
: 當然我也明白留得住人…留不住心的道理。
: 我只希望在寶寶出生後釐清寶寶撫養責任再做結束。
: 目前...
: 他不同意共同監護，共同撫養
: 他不要監護權，撫養費只願意每月負擔5,000元
: 我每個月負擔10,000撫養費，由他獨立執行監護，他也不要。
你們都很清楚，養大一個小孩，每個月
的花費，要遠遠高於這個數字，你們都
是精明的人。
: 我自己傾向放棄監護權，負擔撫養費。不想再重蹈覆轍…
: 寶寶還沒出生…離婚協議就談不攏...寶寶該怎麼辦？
找個律師來問吧。要不然法院把小孩
判給寄養家庭，同時讓你們兩個放棄
小孩監護權，然後你跟你前夫兩個人
都要一起出小孩撫養費，我覺得這是
比較合理的做法。

雖然你在這版常被噓，我是非常能理解你的感受的，因為我對造，也是跟你前妻一樣的爛人

記得你太太原本要小孩的…後來談成的條件小孩如你所願跟著你

自己答應免付撫養費把監護權給你，講的好像前妻蓄意不付。真會扭曲事實以為消失一陣子網友就忘記你以前的發言了嗎？真是本性難移

或許B大對前妻不友善, 但是前妻沒出小孩撫養費是事實..這兩件事應該分開看吧..

樓上你不知道前妻本來要一個小孩的，B大擺爛不談，是他媽媽去談離婚，條件是兩個小孩都給爸爸不用扶養費，前妻才答應的。離婚中自己提出的條件交換變成對方擺爛不付？完全不一樣的事情

B前妻有這麼想要小孩就會上法院訴訟啦 笑死真的愛小孩就應該要付好扶養費 那是小孩的資源與發展兩邊都有問題 不用只撻伐B

挖～鐵粉又出來說話，愛小孩就要付撫養費那當初何必做協議

你真愛小孩的話，就不會對自己的小孩男女有差別待遇

真的不想要離婚，當初就應該好好處理你們的問題不是只覺得不該離婚，不該兄妹分開

You still can't accept your ex dumps you. You havebeen disrespecting single parent family and you arenot able to accept the fact you become a failure byyour own standard regarding single parent family.There are many great single parents including inthis board who deserve respect, but since you alwaysdisrespect any single parent family, you still can'taccept your ex dumped you and you become a failureby your own disdain of single parent families.that's great, if you really think it's case-by-case,there is really no reaso your daughter can't findgood husband due to growing up in a single parentfamily and it's time for you to accept the fact yougot dumped by your ex and become a failure by yourstandard of disdaining single parent families.

某sunny就只會急著扣帽子 我說雙方都有問題希望小孩好 你經濟可以的話 為什麼不付撫養費的確協議就是協議 所以我支持B去法院訴訟撫養費問題他不去又一直抱怨就是他的問題 你sunny就只是B酸而已

You simply can't accept you got dumped, it's reallynot about your ex, it's about you got dumped andbecome a failure by your own standard. It's a pityyou still can't accept this simple fact after theseyears. You're just too proud to accept failure.Most people are able to accept the divorce and moveon, but you obviously can't accept the fact you gotdumped after these years. You're just too proud toface rejection.

924,經濟許可跟付撫養費是兩回事，當初不要有協議讓小孩選擇想跟哪一個不就沒事，難不成因為小孩說要跟前妻是因為某B不夠愛小孩？用撫養費來定義愛不愛小孩的好像是你吧，沒付撫養費不表示前妻沒花資源在小孩身上。

keep telling yourself whatever makes you avoidreality. It's a pity you still can't accept the factthat you got dumped after these years. You're justtoo proud to admit rejection.it doesn't matter, it's not really about your ex.it's about you too proud to admit rejection. It's apity you still can't accept the fact you got dumpedafter these years.

妳前妻不付撫養費，是因為你要二個孩子的監護權你把一個孩子給前妻，就沒有這個問題了。別睜眼說瞎話你搶了小孩的監護權，賺了這麼大，還在這邊哭爹叫娘，實在看不下去。覺得我不對的話，覺得有小孩不是最好的，就把一個送回給媽媽啊！

again, it's not really about your ex. It's about younot able to accept the fact you got dumped. It's apity you're still too proud to admit rejection afterthese years.no, it's not always equal in every relation. You gotdumped and you're just too proud to admit it. Keepfinding excuses to help you avoid reality. It's apity you still can't admit rejection after years.ha ha, you're really desparated. What's written inconstistuion doesn't always reflect reality. Anyway,it must be hard for you to realize this world is notfair and not everything is equal. Keep finding moreexcuses to help you avoid reality. It's a pity youstill can't accept the fact you got dumped nor admitrejection after these years.it's actually kind of sad you're so desparate thatyou use equality in front of law to imply equalityin every relationship. No, not everything is equalin this workld and it's time for you to man up toaccept you got dumped.

他已經承認他被拒絕了 看清楚再打英文

Cool!! He finally admited he got rejected and gotdumped by his ex after these years.Really happy for you to finally admit you got dumpedby your ex after these years. This is a big step foryou!btw, both your friend and you misunderstand therejection here, it refers to rejection in relation-ship, but anyway, so glad you admit it now and canface the fact you got dumped by your ex.

自己都養不起了還養小孩，是要感謝啥？要小孩的一方有本事就自己養啦 在那邊哭撫養費真的好笑基本上沒同住就沒什麼感情了只會越看越厭惡那麼愛錢當初不跟有錢人在一起？

Again, keep making more excuses to avoid reality.None of the excuses you make matters until you canacknowledge the simple fact you got dumped. You'retoo hurt and too proud to admit that you, as aperson, got rejected in the relationship. It's apity you still can't face the fact you got dumpedafter these years.No, the reality is that you got dumped and you're sohurt about it. You're just too proud to admit thatyou, as a person, got dumped in the relationship.But feel free to make more excuses to avoid reality,none of your excuses matters until you admit you gotdumped after these years.