It can be very tempting to evaluate people by outward appearances. It is
human nature to make judgements based on what we see. Someone new in your
life may appear very strongly in a certain way. You may have developed
perceptions of this person that are logically based on what you have seen,
and you may have heard things to back up your perception - but you should
consider that could be very - or even completely wrong. Before you jump to
conclusions, give yourself the chance to know this person. You may be
pleasantly surprised.
人很容易從外表評價他人，我們看見了什麼就會做什麼樣的評斷，這是天性。某個剛
認識的人可能看起來非常特別，你也許會理智地透過自己所見來評論這個人，你也可
能會聽到一些關於他的事，更加佐證了你對他的評論——但是你應該要深思熟慮這樣
可能是大錯特錯的做法，甚至是錯到底了。在你草率地下結論之前，給自己機會去了
解這個人，這樣或許會帶給你驚喜。

.