''Not to'' is better than ''to not''.
※ 引述《milk0115 (憤怒是創業的原動力！！)》之銘言：
: 今天上課的時候遇到一題句子重組如下：
: of / him / tell / kind / to / my / embarrassing / not / anyone / story / .
: It was _____________________________________.
: 我覺得答案是：
: It was kind of him to not tell anyone my embarrassing story.
: 同事覺得是：
: It was kind of him not to tell anyone my embarrassing story.
: 另一個同事覺得兩者皆可。
: 我還是覺得我是對的。用第二種感覺該寫成 It was kind of him not telling anyone
: my embarrassing story.
: 哪位前輩可以告訴我假如不是兩者皆可，哪個答案是對的？為什麼？謝謝！