[問題] what should I do

作者: RemusKao (Idgie)   2019-01-12 18:45:34
The fellow from that vihara called my mother
and asked her to join their meal gathering.
My mother has serious insomnia and anxiety problem.
That’s because my father had an affair with a female fellow from that vihara.
The master of that vihara knew their thing.
My mother’s insomnia becomes serious because of that call.
Today, my father shouted at my mother because of this matter.
My mother thought the master should deleted her name.
It is very obvious my mother would not go there.
My father shouted and yell very loud,
How come the master know ! How come she knows my mother’s name is on that li
st!
Shouldn’t the master be more careful?
They had chance to had an affair is because she sent them to do errends
Only my father and that female fellow…
I don’t want to criticize anyone I just want to solve the problem.…
That temple kept hurting my family again and again…
作者: lk011382 (冰符酒釀)   2019-01-12 21:59:00
so what do you think about the master should how todo?then you really need to talk to the master.the problem is really on your father and that one.family things are always confused,that only you be patient and reason will handle its.
作者: XDDDpupu5566 (XDpu56家族)   2019-01-13 03:38:00
1. Comfort you mom and show your support.2. Talk to the master and the lady having affairs with you dad.If she is a true Buddhist, she should have feltashamed already.3. If your dad is reasonable, talk to him and make sure he understands the situation.4. Pray that there's a resolution and your parents will reunite.5. If insomnia is pretty severe, seek help froma psychiatrist.

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