原出處:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mark-manson/the-most-important-question_b_4269161
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※The Most Important Question You Can Ask Yourself Today：
: Everybody wants what feels good. Everyone wants to live a care-free, happy
: and easy life, to fall in love and have amazing sex and relationships, to
: look perfect and make money and be popular and well-respected and admired and
: a total baller to the point that people part like the Red Sea when you walk
: into the room.
: Everybody wants that

3.攻陷 XD卸下對方心防過程中的心情起伏 or 心情躁動 or 患得患失it's easy to want that → 用想的都很簡單？how our lives end up → 我們如何成就人生（說結束好恐怖今天你能自問最重要的問題→"你今天最該問自己的問題"較順

It's easy to want that = {To want that, Wanting that}is easy. 想要，很容易。（重點在 easy，所以放句尾的好，注意原文排版easy還加斜體強調。） weathering rejections是被動的，對方不要你，你只好認命，只有承受、挨打的份，意思如 surviving rejections，能活命、捱過就好，你是沒什麼能耐去攻陷對方的 :)